The older I get the more I start to realize that there really is no point in wasting time with people you don't 110% love. Over this past year I went through a really tough time and one day I hope soon, I can be able to help people who are going through similar situations. In the midst of this emotionally draining time, I think I had an epiphany. I know it sounds crazy but when the clock struck 12 yesterday something just clicked. And I just needed to share it with everyone.
Stop spending time with those who don't make you feel wonderful. Stop giving your love and company to friends and significant others who clearly do not deserve it. Stop draining yourself emotionally and physically for absolutely nothing in return. This process will most likely be painful and probably confusing for those toxic friendships I currently hold, but I know it has to be done. At the end of the day I think I would rather have 3 super close friends who I love and where I know they love me equally if not more, than tons of fake friends. This does not mean I or anyone reading this right now should go drop all their friends except the top 3 closest ones. I think it just means that you don't need to pretend like all your friends are your bff's when you know they are'nt. For the longest time I found myself forcing myself to be super close with all my friends all while knowing I don't trust all of them in such a drastic manner. I think this will be my resolution for not only this year but for my life. Will it be yours?
E.E.
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